Carl, I've been doing A LOT of research into retrouvaille, and it's ALL been positive feedback. I think the fact that she is willing to consider it is a huge step. I would call the phone number for the city you will attend and ask some questions. They were helpful on the phone. My STBX kept saying no without even considering it, but 2 days ago actually asked me about it. She still won't go, but she is seriously considering it. Good luck.
