Here is my sitch. All advice welcome

[Hanging__On]

Well here I am again. For whatever reason I am having a lot of anxiety today. I have thought that all week the W was going to move out this weekend because next weekend I am taking the kids camping. Well she has not packed up one thing and has not mentioned when she is leaving. I just feel so much in the dark about what is going on? Her birthday is tomorrow and I still have not gotten her anything. She says she doesn't want nothing, but I feel like I should do something for her. Help?