Here is my sitch. All advice welcome

[Hanging__On]

Thanks for the encouragment everyone. I am having a tough time righ now. She went and painted at the place she is moving into. Whenever she talks about moving out I just want to pull my hair out. None of this makes any sense to me. I am constantly wanting to talk the situation over with her but I am biting my tonge. I just feel like I am going crazy with how cold she treats me. She acts like there is nothing going on and this is completely normal.