Here is my sitch. All advice welcome

[Hanging__On]

Thanks for the advice MDA. I have already bought the books and I am currently reading it. I have a gut feeling that she is still in contact with the OP. I have no proof. The last know contact was in the middle of Febuary. She says that she wants us to work things out but doesn't think it is possible. I am not sure but it seems to that she is just making excuses for a divorce. The next couple of weeks are going to be tough. She wants to move out but she has to get the other place ready. She seems to be dragging her feet but maybe she is waiting until Memorial weekend. I am taking the girls camping for 5 days. It is a yearly camping trip we take with lots of family and friends. I have invited her to come with us but she says she doensn't know if she is going to go. The worst part of the whole thing is trying to explain, without to much detail, what is going on to our 5 yr. daughter. She does not want mom and dad to live in two different houses.