sorry you find yourself here, we all hate to see new members, but you have come to a good place.
Quote: Should I just let her leave the house and act as if there is nothing wrong with it
Yes, you have to gather as much strength as possible and let her leave, act as if you are fine with. B/C you no what, you can't stop her from leaving: Begging, crying, Whinning will only strengthen her resolve.
Quote: I found out about 4 months ago that my wife was having an affair
IS the A still going on? WHen did it end???
OK A couple of things:
1. Have you Read Divorce remedy?? if not get out ASap and ge the books 2. You may want to read about MLC in that forum... I know I thought the same things WHy W is 29, but I can tell you my W I think is a Classic MLC. 3. Give her space, Probably the sigle best thing you can do. If/When she leaves, let her go, give her the time and space she is asking for. 4. Work on yourself. 5. Come hear often and post.
