I am definately trying to identify my part. I have accepted the fact that I could have done more but all I can do is work on the future. I need to become a better listener for sure. I should have been more affectionat. The problem now is she doesn't seem to accept the fact that I am trying to become a better husband. Right now she points out every little thing about how bad I was but does not seem to care about her part in the marraige. I am trying to get back in the groove and act as if but this is tough.


Married 11 years, together 15 Two Daughters 6 and 2 D-day Jan.14 2006 Thread 1