Do a search for "Some reflections on Retrouvaille" by GG. The thread started on 9/27/99 and went thru 11/6/99. I don't recall the forum.
I asked my wife to attend on Sunday and am awaiting her reply. Not getting an immediate "NO" was nice for now. I'm just gearing myself to get a negative response and look at a "YES" as a fabulous thing to have happen.
Keep on DBing your heart out. You've come a long way! I'm proud of you...
