What is someone supposed to do when they practice the 5 Love Languages, but it never seems to be enough for the WAW? I am certainly not perfect and I may not have practiced the 5 LL completely, but I came pretty close. However, nothing I did seemed to make any difference. Affirmation, gifts, quality time, acts of service, and physical touch were all things I did on a regular basis. It all seems so confusing.
In my sitch, there is no question that my W is a fundamentally unhappy person who keeps looking for something outside herself to bring her happiness. She has tried different jobs, "retail therapy," traveling, cosmetic surgery, assorted relationships and now, her second A. Its all too bad.
She has filed for D and I received the summons today. So it would appear we have entered a new phase of our lives. I feel sorry for her and wish that someday she will find the happiness that neither I nor anyone/anything can provide.
