Boo hiss. W gets to tell the big bad judge she doesn't want to be married, her GF gets to say, yep they been living apart... DONE. My L isn't going; says it's a waste of time/money since I can't STOP it... I'm still debating whether to go or not. I said in my response to the complaint that I didn't feel we were irreconcilable...so my views are on record. Nothing I say is going to change anything. She knows I don't want this. Part of me feels like just letting go. IF at some point in the future she feels a need to explore where we are at, I'll see how I feel about things then. And for the record this does not mean I'm giving up or quitting, just changing my tactics. So what do you all think? Amy??? I KNOW you'll have an opinion!
