The affiar is over. He has gone back to his wife. The OM's wife came to us and told both of us he was back in his home and they were working on their relationship.
My wife now says she won't leave and has agreed to work on it. She doesn't have a lot of passions when she says she will work on it. But she has acknowleded it is right. She is also grieving the loss of the relationship with the OM. The bad part is that I had my head where it didn't belong for so long. This has been going on for about 2 yrs. I beleive we will get through this, but I will be paying much closer attention to our relationship. I value it more now than I did.
I need some suggestions on how I proceed. Should I continue DB technics?? How can I help her accept my forgivness? How can I help her with the guilt? Although she is starting, how can I help her accept my love?
