Not as exsperienced as some here. But one thing I would sugests is to keep up with what you have been doing. And maybe every now and then maybe sugest something simple like going to the beach, the park, minature golfing, a picnic. With the whole family. As not to push but to take a baby step with her.
As far as the intamacy thing. Let her come to you when she feels comfortable. Dont push it. With my H I told him completly that i would stop everything and if he wanted to be intamate I wouldnt be chasing him around any more. Well of coarse he didnt like that idea. So it changed his perspective. But i think that with your W. Maybe give her a tender touch or something like that. Not to push the issue. If she feels she needs a kiss by all means dont shy away from it. But dont force it either. I know it is a thin line to walk. But i say a tender touch maybe on the neck or the arm. To show affection but not too much. You know her better than all of us here. But those are some sugestions of a way to take a baby step with her. And say hey I care about you. So she doesnt feel she is making all the effort. Cause you dont want her at this point if she felt neglected before to feel well heck i always give him a kiss and he doesnt show it back unless i do.
So maybe reach for her hand when you are walking those kind of things. Just like you did when you were first dating. And everyone is afraid of taking it to far. Follow her lead but at the same time show her that you are open to her affection and want to show her with out pressure some too..
