Thanks for reply Midnight. I've read so much of your stuff all over here and on newcomers. I guess the most encouraging thing my W said to me was that she "likes me". She said this several times. I guess if you can be having a calm discussion about whether of not you should end your marriage and your spouse can say they still like you, that there might be just enough left there to build a new marriage on--(or I could be just deceiving myself). What do you thinK?

MF