Nathan, I posted an update on my Retrouvaille thread.
Did you attend all your follow ups? If not... make them up at the next session. It is really important!
Keep dialoguing. Retrouvaille is a process...not a quick fix. It takes a lot of hard work and patience. Don't give up!
Even if your wife won't dialogue, do a "positive" dialogue to give to her as a gift. Don't focus on the negative until she is ready. Use your skills you learned every day. Focus on feelings Nathan!