You're correct. I was primarily venting, thanks for your response. And although I was venting, I would and do appreciate any thoughts on this subject.
Specific questions?
1. What's the best way to teach someone not to be inhibited? Is this even possible?
2. Should I just be happy for what he can give and quit wanting the feelings to be behind it?
3. What if he gets frustrated with all the work and gives up.
With things left as they were, our marriage would eventually be ruined. I would get more resentful and then mean, and then he would start hating me, then its over. I'm really scared.
At least I know the answer to one question. Thanks to the MC...I AM NOT ABNORMAL in my physical desires! And SEX IS IMPORTANT to a good marriage. The MC says, "sex is a small part of a good marriage when it is good, but its a huge part if it is bad"
