Goodguy59,

Yes! I do think its a pattern. And the 1st two wives were probably to young to know how to deal with it. But also, I don't think they really loved Richard the way I do.

The first wife was married to him for 9 years. And it endend when he acutally caught her in bed with his best friend and business partner. Then about 9 years later, he discovered that the children she had while they were married were not his (DNA proved it) And that she had been sleeping with that friend since the 2nd year of their marriage. And the really suprising thing is he claims to not had any clue as to what was going on! The therapist told me it was very unusual for a person to not know when his partner is cheating. and for that long! She really doubts this.