Oh sure, I know all about the fact that you didn't 'choose' her to marry, she got pg and all that, but *something* in her attracted her to you, right?
I would concentrate on what FOO/fused things are or were within you that caused you to pick such an obviously broken creature and try to 'fix' her. We all tend to choose someone who is at the same level of differentiation than we are, and you guys are surely no different.
How have you addressed the areas within yourself that led you to pick her in the first place?
(I keep trying to lead the convo back to you and away from her, see.......)
P.S. About the boxes, my word that'd drive me absolutely batshit and I'm not known for my spicandspanness. Can you designate one room of the house for school stuff and she'd better keep the rest of it clutter free?
