Kansha, I am also working on getting H into counseling with me. He didn't give me a resounding NO last night when we were having an OR talk and I asked about counseling... so I jumped on the opening, and found a counselor who I THINK/HOPE my H will be able to relate to (biker, biker clientle, pro marriage/relationship, used to be a heavy equipment operator, familiar with Michele's work, plans on attending her workshop in Aug, solution oriented with a little "psychotherapy", recommended by my H's FIL who has had failed relationship after failed relationship but seems to be growing up now). I set an appt for me and the counselor next Tues, and I hope/pray/wish that H will be joining me. H is still leaning towards leaving. So...
Kansha, run don't walk to your nearest solution based therapist that you think your H may bond with (and you too). You've been in my thoughts! You are such a trooper! Hang tough!
