I just have to add one more thing because this seems to be a huge wedge between you and your wife. And an issue you seem to focus on a lot. But I do know of a divorce that happened and the husband was given like 100,000 from his parents as a gift as his parents has won the lottery. They divorced and the wife got half. I know of another divorce that happened and the wife had inherited her parents house. This couple split up and she fought this tooth and nail as her husband was a real jerk and had her name off everything they owned practically. Everything was split 50/50 which meant she had to see the house that was precious to her. And he had to give up the 50 percent he was trying to hide and keep away.
So why keep putting the wedge between you and having the mentality of what's mine is mine.
