Kansha- I just posted about my counseling on SBS's thread. Like your H, my H trusted this counselor and had gone to her several months before he made the move home. She's been very helpful.
I had my first individual session yesterday and expressed my dislike of limbo. I guess we're going to address H at our next joint session. She tried setting up treatment goals, but a lot depends on what H does. I mean it will be difficult for me to deal with pain, if it's still in my face.