Thanks for your quick reply. Sorry you had to wake up out of a sound sleep with heart palpatations to do it. No matter which way you go it isn't easy what we are doing.
My heart aches for you. I have been in your shoes before and I really can't say which is worse.
My H is going to counseling alone already. And I'm going to the same person. I don't think she calls herself a DB counselor But she has the book on her shelf and Supports me in my DBing. My H trusts her so I'm gonna try to coordinate a joint session with her. H is passive aggressive so I'm trying to do this just right so that he actually ends up going.
Thanks for your kind words. My prayers are with you as well. Have you posted your story anywhere?
