What kind of husband tries to strip a wife of any power at all. That seems very weird. How much farther are you willing to go. You have stripped her of being entitled to any of your money by taking her name off accounts. You refuse to let her have any rights to your property. You mentioned something about not letting her even be on the title to your vehicle.
Then you even made that comment about it's not your fault her family was not well off and din't leave her anything. Cobra that little stement you made was so full of hatred and was just down right nasty and mean. Then you say she hasn't wanted to be intimate with you and you are not letting that happen again. Why would she want to be intimate with you? If you spew that kind of hatred at her why would she even as much as find herself even wanting to kiss you let alone ML. I can't even imagine how I would feel if my husband put me and my family down like that. And said well to bad my family was well off and could give me something. Your family is poor and can't do anything for you. YOU CLEARLY send the message that you are not commited to this marriage by saying I am not going to give you one more assett to take away from me. Why in heck would she trust you? Why in the heck would she think you are commited? No wonder she doesn't trust you. You are so full of power plays right now. And have convinced yourself that what you are doing is right and is going to change your marriage around. You play as many games as she does.
Then you say she don't have the confidence to leave you and has abandonement issues. Then why are you so ticked off about the retainer fee? And if she was lacking such confidence and has abandonement issues would she have even of put that retainer fee down? Because maybe she has had enough.
What do you mean by well yeah she does have a police record but her job knows her situation? Did you call her place of employment to? You made a comment about her calling the police on you. So what was it when you did it just a knife in the back kind of payback. I just can't comprehend calling the police just because of an argument that I started to begin with.
Blackfoot made a good point..
What do you do to show her you love her? Because on here I don't think I have ever seen you give her credit for anything or say any nice word about her at all. Don't you think she has sense and feel your hatred and powerplays? I mean really think about it. Then think about if you would want to be intimate with a person like that.
