yes. and you are pulling some of your own power plays. more on that in a second
It really is, but we are way down the road to where there are few alternatives left but divorce.
are you preparing for a negative outcome? Is that where you see you and your W headed? because if it is then you will most likely end up there.
What would the big deal be if you put her name on the van title? Its a gesture of faith, a token of goodwill on your part. In the long run or in a D, its not going to mean a thing.
back to the power play.
It is time for her to make a choice
What choice? the choice to commit to the M? Cobra, I and every other guy here understand what you are saying and wanting, but
Its Irrelevant. (dont have time for a long diatribe, and monolougue about it right now.)
That is your issue. (and mine and pretty much every mans. )
Drop it. Let go of this need to pin her down and have her give up all her power (which is what it feels like to her) by satisfying this need in you.
stop mentioning it. Try it for a little while. assume that she is committed amd wants to be there, instead of afraid that she isnt.
What do you do to make her feel good, and smile? Do you make her laugh, everyday? Can you be goofy with her?
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