(been sleeping for the past couple of hours ... all of a audden wake up with a heart thats beating too wildly ... 'get ahold of yourself guy .... there ... that's better ... check the website ... you always find some support there either in what you read about others who are where you are or ... when you read about others who are really in better place than you are)
Good morning Kansha,
Tough sometimes ... just about all the time ... isn't it?
My wife moved 3 hours away 6 weeks ago, right after she started hot and heavy affair with her art teacher. Just wants to be friends with me. Wanna trade places?
K ... if your H will go to counseling ... find out where a BD counselor is in your area and get your butts there as quickly as possible. Your H is in limbo or else he would not be making some of the statements he's making ... and 2 nights not with OW is a hell of a lot better than the other way around.
I know it isn't easy for any of us who are using this website to try to help keep our senses about us ... regardless of what our individual circumstances are. Know that I care about what you are going through ... just as a lot of people on the BD site care ...