Gotta comment on the question of blame, assets, and divorce. I think you're either being a bit paranoid, or you think that judges actually care about who takes the blame for what. It is highly unlikely that anything you say in a MC office is even going to be admissible as evidence in court. It is highly unlikely that an apology is going to have any effect on the division of assets, or that an admission of fault regarding an argument years ago will even register on a judge's interest-o-meter.
My advice? Apologize for what you did. Apologize for what she did. Apologize for what the Duke LaCrosse team may or may not have done to the stripper. Just apologize and move forward. You know, as well as I do, that it's not going to make a farking bit of difference whether you apologize for Eve eating the apple, she'll continue to be pissed off is that's what she wants. Apologize. No skin off you're back. Just be sure it sounds sincere. And you should be able to fake that.
