My situation sounds different than yours.... My H left one day and said he was going to the OW and the next day he regretted his decision and went to see a priest (he's not a religious man) and then we have been in couseling since then...that was in Feb of 99 and he moved to an apartment on his own in March of 99.....he had been very active in our lives....we kept in touch every day and saw each other almost every day....but I knew that he still had contact with the OW and he still might today but he has maintained that there is nothing going on between them and his actions do prove that but I still have my doubts at times....but I guess that's my own insecurites coming out at my weakest moments....I do know that no matter what I will be OK..... So CC, as you can see we have kept in touch throughout this whole time....our counselor said that we have a strong connection and have done very well in couseling..... I'm thrilled to have him back, but at the same time a littly leary and scared.....it seems that if you leave once, it's easy to do it again..... Good luck to you CC and if I can answer any more of your questions, please ask
