Cobra: Thank you for all the details of the C visit, and your views about your W and your M. So many similarities to my sitch, what with the list, the changes you (and I) have made to accomodate their wishes, the lack of credit for the changes made, the lack of intimacy in spite of the resolved list, and the continued deflection to avoid working on her own issues.
It's nice to know that I'm not walking through this darkness alone.
