What wonderful news re your H moving home!! I am very happy for you.
I can't answer your question re trusting. It does take time. My H and I are separated, and don't have much contact. H has an Ow. I have taken a good look at myself and the relationship. I guess if my H were to come back, the way I would start trusting again, is to realize that while you can't forget, you have to wipe the slate clean. I look at H's affair as a symptom of our problems. I have no malice for Ow, because she has nothing to do with the relationship btw my H and me. I know that if we would have given each other a break and worked together, H wouldn't be in the arms of Ow. So, I think that if you keep dbing, and keep the relationship moving forward, slowly and steadily, there is no need to worry about an affair.
That is just my opinion. He's back, don't let the past haunt you.
