Glad to hear that you are back on the boards and I'm sorry to hear of your accident. My brother did a Master's level project on some kind of safety mechanism on cranes that keeps them from falling over. Are you too hurt to work?
I have found some of my issues keeping me from being helpful to others on this board sometimes too. My own situation continues to be challenging and it is my own desire to be able to look at myself in the mirror that keeps me in the fight. Currently, I have stepped back from my H in order to regroup. More on that in my thread.
I'm also sorry to hear that the dating world is showing its ugly seamy side already. I have to say that I'm not terribly impressed with people's general integrity etc... The dating websites are sickening and the married folks that troll them make me worry for my children. What are they learning about relationships? I went on a website that had jokes on it and the advertisements from adult friend finder were all over it with photos of people half naked - sometimes the top and sometimes the bottom. I guess that all we need to know about people now is that they have all the right parts?
