Cobra,

Again, I agree somewhat with that. Again, as intelligent as I feel I may be at sometimes, the situation being so close sometimes clouds my objectiveness.

I understand and I do beleive the nature of our conflict in my M is one that cannot be fixed without counseling, to this we have both agreed upon. The stepping into the fray was not the right move at that time but was on the horizon, no matter which way I moved. I am not in a power play situation anymore from my perspective because through my actions and hers I have relinquished my power of influence in regards to "how" we were interacting.

The "cliff notes" as MoJo put it, help even more now. As does Lil's gruesome image of being set aflame! OUCH!

I would be interested in how you and your W started repair after your flirtation with divorce proceedings. A new thread? A posting on mine?

No real offense taken Cobra. As I stand by my actions in real life, I stand and take accountability for them here, and see you point and where you were going.

F4W


Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.

Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!