Survivor, Hi. My advice is move slowly, don't have too many expectations too soon. I am trying to figure out how to rebuild trust DURING the affair (the PA part is supposedly on hold, but the EA is still very active), and that is one heckuva doozy. Do you darnedest NOT to snoop! It is so hard not to, as one of my friends keeps pointing out when I do it, because we are often "rewarded" for doing it by finding something we didn't know about. Your H is home. Turn you focus to your marriage and DBing and relegate the Ow to a tiny inconsequential mosquito. Congratulations on your H's return!!! Keep DBing!
