First, I commend you for even wanting to try to work on your marriage after your H's affairs. I truly know how much pain an affair brings to a marriage. (My H had one).
I wish I had some advice for you about regaining trust again. Maybe counceling for you alone could be an option to help you through this. I've also come to the belief that the straying spouse must have a hand in helping through the healing and trusting part again (but what he can do, I'm really not sure).
I wish you the best of luck, like Michele said it can be renewed, I believe that.
I don't own a cell phone yet either!
