I wish I could be as accepting as you. I have gotten to the point where I've thought along the lines of "Nobody gets everything that they want from life. So what if I don't have the passionate sex life I desire, I have x,y and z which other people might want and can't have. I should try to work on appreciating what I have.". Unfortunately, I find it very difficult to maintain this mental state when exposed to certain environmental triggers that make me horny and I quickly lapse into "Why can't I get me some? It's not fair.".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver