Not saying you shouldn't work on your acceptance. It is because of your acceptance that H has finally accepted that HE has a dilemma - if you can let this go but he doesn't want you to it is HE who has to take action. I hope he does. My wish for you is that he takes the reins and decides once and for all to make this a sexual partnership. In that scenario - you could be his Queen but he would also be your King. KWIM?
