Cobra...I could have told you that a long time ago LOL.
He's ALWAYS needed loads of validation from me, and I try to provide it. Only he can work through that enmeshment though. In some ways I can see him progressing on that too. He's beginning to slowly loosen that death grip he's had on his past.
I know now he has a sex drive, he even talks about the fact that we don't have sex as often as he'd like (when that one finally came out I stopped in my tracks and did a WTF!!!!....you could literall envision Roadrunner speeding by Wiley Coyote....and screeching to a halt LOL). My H has HUGE self esteem issues when it comes to one-on-one intimate R's. I'm thinking in the near future it's going to be time for him to start seeing our MC on his own....so she can concentrate on those issues she sees with him.
