Great news on the back. I had a similar incident 10 years ago. Dr, rec was surgery with no guarantees, Let it go and blow then have surgery, or do the exercises. Exercises worked. OF course that did not slow my SD
As to you comments to Nicky, they are spot on. I believe what happened in your sitch was the "awakening" in your H to start getting all his crap together and get it in one bag. A lot of us are waiting for our spouses to do that but, in my case, I forgot to get my done first. I think that is paramount. We need to be in a better spot, emotionally and mentally to be able to see the end of the line vs continuing to go on the way it is. Once we can see that AND have created a very healthy spot to see that line, it forces our S to get aboard or be left behind.
That healthy spot can only be reached when we have dealt with our issues and faults and stop playing the resentment game and bundeling each problem with others.
Again, great news on the back issue, and send that photo in to Jeff Foxworthy and see if ya can't get a "redneck gift basket" out of the deal!
