I hope you didn't take my post the wrong way. I didn't mean that I was rubbed the wrong way about your posting your successes...I am so happy for you and hubby and your posts do give me hope that with hard work and persistance things can get better.
I really meant that it's taken me to hear other people's stories to realize that it isn't more sex, or better sex, it's the everyday interaction and feeling of mutual contentment that I personally am longing for. There are too many egg shells we're walking on and creating a barier between us. That's what I am hoping to fix for us and it's because of you sharing your story that I feel like it can actually change.
On another note, had I not found out about H's intereset in online porn (thanks to your tips), our R would not have progressed as much as it has.
I know there is a lot that I need to change about me. It has become more apparent lately...I guess I'll expand on that in my own thread!!
Nicky
"There are two types of people -- those who come into a room and say, 'Well, here I am,' and those who come in and say, 'Ah, there you are.'"
Frederick Collins
