No they haven't admitted him due to the kidney stones, but he does have an appointment with his urologist this week to see what's going on.
I know the kidney stones have him a bit upset, but the back thing really has him worried...he has an appointment to see a specialist about that on Monday. Hopefully that will come back as nothing serious, I know it's weighing on his mind quite a bit as my H is a very active outdoorsy person....and his job requires him to be quite active as well.
Actually we've both been a bit puny lately. I've not been feeling up to snuff myself for a few months....I just had attributed it to my allergies. When I finally went to an allergist last week though (never had been tested) I found out that I've had an infection in both of my sinuses for quite some time.....no freakin wonder I've been so exhausted lately! I mean, it hasn't affected me much other than sneezing my head off and blowing my nose so much it's raw....but now I know why I've been so fatigued myself lately (more than chasing your average 3 yr old around would do LOL).
Hopefully my H in particular will have some answers this week. I certainly hope so, I'm starting to get a bit cranky from the lack of sex LOL. But I certainly do understand this time why it's not on his mind. The EC is still going strong though, just this past Friday night we had a date night and went out to dinner. He was so affectionate....and almost gushy towards me. It was really nice, he's honestly made great strides in his interaction with me.
It's kind of interesting too in the fact that the other day I came across some old letters he'd saved (I don't even think he knows he still had them, he's such a pack rat). They were letters from his XW and an XGF. I probably shouldn't have read them, but I did. In some ways it really bothered me that he still had them....but I know they were from 97 & 98, years ago. In those letters I read about a man that was so much different than the one I know now. He has in the past told me how he used to be....he used to be very controlling and everything had to be his way....I couldn't have lived with him back then. Honestly, reading those letters did help reinforce to me all the work he has done on himself....for me....for us.
