Joanne You may want to consider at least looking into Retrouvaille. If you want this to work, want to each HEAR each others side of the story, this will probably help. If anything, you won't walk away from each other with wondering what was on the others mind. The presenting couples we had for our weekend bulldozed over a lot of the stories even here on this forum - and they are all still together as a result. It sure is encouraging when they tell what they went through. It made our (W and I) problems look like small potatoes. Check out their web site at www.retrouvaille.org
