I guess maybe what I'm trying to say is that we can't make our partners change but we should do what we can to help them grow even if this is scary because it necessitates growth in ourselves. We should accept them for who they are at this point in time because that is only rational but realize that we might limit their opportunities for change by rushing too soon into our own comfort zones. We need to ask ourselves if what attracts us to a man who mostly acts Beta is really healthy.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
