That is so true Mojo! I remember when I was first offered the teaching job. I was really scared because I had always had a fear of public speaking. But once I did it, I realized I was pretty good at it and that really did help my self-esteem. So yes, sometimes we make assumptions about what we can and can't do, who we are, and who we are not. Then, when we push ourselves, we realize it's not so bad afterall. I think taking the leap is probably the hardest part. And maybe it is that way for our S. They fear being out of their comfort zone so much that they just don't try sometimes.