Joanne, I am really sorry that you are confronted with such a tough situation. But you sound really strong and that's great. I am grateful that people on this board now know me well enough to know that I would never recommend that you stay in your marriage if you are completely done with it based on how you've been treated.
I know you well enough to know that you have worked very hard to make your marriage work. If you, Joanne, are convinced it's over, it's over. I regret all that you've been through but you've become a stronger person because of it.
I'm glad that DB has helped you to feel your own strength. As everyone know, Dbing doesn't always save every marriage, but it can save your sanity. So please, Joanne, keep us posted. Everyone here cares about you, including me. Michele
