I'm so sorry Jo. I didn't see this one coming. I really thought you 2 were going to click it all together. You've always spoke with such superior DB knowledge. Please, please, don't leave this site. Just because it didn't work for you, you DO have the knowledge of what it takes, and you CAN help others. Without pointing blame (sorry Michele), this is your H's fault, you've done EVERYTHING you could to save your marriage. May you walk away guilt free. I know you will. And please stop by to help others. JoAnne, you DO know what it takes to save a marriage, don't lose that.
No one in their right mind would tell you to continue to fight for your marriage. I believe that Michele will agree that when you feel enough is enough, then ENOUGH!
Throught bitterness and anger, you sound incredilby strong! YEAH for you!
I wish you much happiness and brighter beginnings in your new future,