Jamie, I know you have a new thread, but I don't want to bug you with my questions there. Your H has the same attitude my H has about his feeling needing to change etc, all that passive aggressive stuff...did your H seem to cycle on and off with distancing and being out of touch or was he consistently in touch with you? I'm not making any moves toward my H at all, have backed off 100%, but he is still distant and isn't making any moves either. I feel very tempted at this point (1yr.separation) to file for D. I don't see any progress whatsoever.
