Jamie, I like your advice and feel that I have followed the same rules.
My H and I are now separated 8 months and talking about getting it together. When I do press H for answer, like a date, he gets distant and starts the MLC talk.
I know that you have followed my story. I have made great strides in the right direction dbing. I have been reading but not posting much.
I'm in a funk today and need so help. Tomorrow is my 16th anniversary. H has not asked about a date or weekend plans. I'm sad because I thought this would be a good point for us to move forward again. I feel like telling him to stay away until he can committ. Say's he wants to work it out not just for the kids but for us as well. Keeps stalling for time. We have spent the last 6 weekends together as a family. Most of time very plesant and normal. Lots of weeknights together as well. He stays over night at our house about 50% of the week.
Should I let the anniversary thing go? I think I'm really setting myself up for a disappointment.
You sound terrific ! I'm reading lot of wonderful developments in your relationship. It give me real hope and courage to move on.
