Hi Jamie. I wanted to ask you what your contact with H was like during the many months you were separated. Since you have seen improvements only recently, could you tell me if during your separation he was indicating a willingness to try? Was that what kept you going? Or was he saying the things these other H's say about things not workings, wanting D etc. My H is passive aggressive big time, so I'm feeling somewhat hopeless because I know it takes him forever to decide to do anything, if he ever does. I usually had to be the initiator. Since you say your H is PA also, how in the world did you motivate him to work on the marriage? Thanks for any information you can provide, it always helps.