You make it sound like divorce is always an option, maybe even and easy option. Well, I have two problems with that. One, I am a fairly conservative religious guy, and so considering divorce is something that is real hard to justify, it goes against my relgion, and it sure as heck is not good for my 3 children. Two, as one relationship expert put it, to fix a bad marriage, you must eliminate divorce as an option, because if you don't, divorce is ALWAYS the easier option then fixing the marriage. I think there is a lot of truth to that. That is why I have not thrown in the towel yet.
