But my fantasies are becoming more vivid and I find myself throughly checking out other women, especially looking for the wedding ring. If some attractive women expressed a physical interest in me, I probably would falter.
I am not looking for an affair, in fact so far I have tried to avoid situations that might cause an affair. But if one found me, my faithfulness might really be tested.
To me these statements are so passive aggressive. You don’t like your current situation. You don’t want to confront your wife to set any boundaries. I think you are really mad at yourself for your weakness, to the point that you completely play victim and martyr like Mojo has been doing (and which she is no longer doing, right Mojo?)
If you really want to get out of your marriage then do so. If you want to have an affair, then do so. Tell your wife how it is going to be, come to some agreement and draw up some legal papers releasing each other from marital fidelity, and go at it!
But whatever you choose, stop playing helpless victim, whinning about your sitch, always couching your messages in “Why is it that women…” or “I don’t understand why women…” If you believe in a particular position, then have the guts to come out and say it straight up. Stop playing ignorant, victimized, pitiful dutiful, faithful, noble, honorable husband. Take a stand!!
