Cemar,

Have you ever told your wife how you are feeling? As in you feel you may be on the verge of an affair? Just curious as to what her response was.



IJ,

I kind of feel the same way right now. I go along with it for the most part. Because I don't want to make him feel rejected. I know that feeling. But I find myself trying to do everything to try to just avoid. Because mentally I just don't think about sex with him or crave it at all. Like the going to bed early or having one of the kiddos in bed.

I think maybe his new attitude has over whelmed me. I always thought I would have been thrilled if he changed around.