I can see where HD's become LD, but ONLY for their spouse. After YEARS of being forced to inhibit my desire for her, I actually get mad at myself for the times we actually do ML. Basically I find myself asking why I would desire someone that does not desire back, I should have better. But my fantasies are becoming more vivid and I find myself throughly checking out other women, especially looking for the wedding ring. If some attractive women expressed a physical interest in me, I probably would falter.
