Funny, I just read SS posts and as I read yours I was going to suggest to you to read hers!! My W is planning on moving home June 1st. The lease is up the end of July and W stated several months ago that she wouldn't stay there anyhow after the leasr was up (as it would increase and be to much $$$). When W first said she would move in June 1, I thought maybe she would talk to the landlord to see about getting out early. I've sense picked up on small things that she may keep the lease open as well until it runs out. Good news in my case is that it will run out in July, so I'll focus on the big picture and simpll 'let it ride'. Maybe that will help in that you just tell yourself 'OK the apt will be there for the next ?? monthes' and resolve yourself to accept that. The decision will be made to yourself and the issue will not be an issue for the next ?? months because you, to yourself, have already resolved it. Good Luck!!!